There are many reasons why older women with younger men works better than most hookup relationships, even scientific ones. The facts are that men hit their sexual peak in their late teens (18+) while women don't reach theirs until their mid to late 30s. That makes the age gap of younger men with older women not only beneficial, but logical. The idea of being with an older women may sound hard to acquire, but follow our guide and you'll have your own cougar in no time.
There is a misnomer that every older single woman is looking for a young guy. That simply is not the case. Older women aren't all dying to be with guys who are immature, don't have much to provide and make them feel older. However, there are ways to convince an older woman that you are deserving of them. If you want to know how to seduce an older woman, it is about your behavior and the way that you carry yourself. Follow these rules to learn how to seduce an older woman.
Don't act your age
If you're a young guy, then you're obviously used to acting that way, especially around your friends and even past girlfriends. An older woman does not want to put up with that however. Some of them may have children your age and get enough of that behavior with them so don't remind them of that. An older woman is going to be attracted by your sexual prowess, not your immaturity. When you're in her presence you need to act with poise and class and behave in a way that won't embarrass her or remind her of her children.
With many relationships with older women, especially cougars, they woman will pay for meals and most other things. However, if you take that for granted and never offer to pay, they may start losing respect or may start feeling used. It is important for a guy to step up and pay (or at least offer) every once in a while in every relationship. Trying to pay the first time you both go out is especially important to appear manly and like you have the resources. Once that tone is set, you can back off from paying, but still offer from time to time.
Don't try to impress her
Going out with an older woman isn't like going on a job interview, she doesn't want to know all your accomplishments or past history, she just wants to have a good time. After all, that's why she's out with a younger man. Chances are that she has been out with many older men who are far more accomplished than you are so trying to brag is going to fall short most of the time. Ask her about herself and find out what adventures she feels like she has missed out on and figure out how you can help her accomplish them.
Do be chivalry
Chivalry is not dead, especially with older women. While younger women may not be used to being wined and dined and having the door opened for them, older women are. Single older women work hard during the day and want to be treated like a queen when they're off work. If you want to seduce an older woman, you have to show her that you respect and deserve her. Always open the door for her, pull the car up to the door, ordering good, and always take care of her needs.
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